Constantly connected, increasingly distracted

Why a digital detox matters

by damith
May 11, 2025 1:05 am 0 comment 9 views

By J. U. Perera

Somewhere between the seventh tab open on a browser and the 43rd unread message, the day disappears. You’re there, present in body, but your mind keeps darting from screen to screen, from app to alert. What began as convenience has become chaos. Not loud and dramatic, but quiet and creeping. It’s the kind of noise that never stops humming in the background—until you make it.

This is where the idea of a digital detox steps in—not as a gimmick or tech-bashing trend, but as a practical response to a life running on low bandwidth.

Phones used to live on walls. Now, they live in our hands, pockets, bedsides, and sometimes, even in our hands while we sleep. We check them hundreds of times a day, often without realising it: on the bus, in elevators and between bites at dinner. The ritual is so ingrained that doing nothing—truly nothing—feels odd, even uncomfortable.

Yet, in the name of connection, many are experiencing a profound sense of disconnection. The average person spends several hours a day staring into screens, not just for work or study, but as a reflex. A short break turns into a half-hour scroll. A notification drags attention into a rabbit hole. Over time, these moments aren’t small. They add up to a fragmented mind and a scattered life.

The point of the detox

The term “digital detox” might sound like something dreamed up by lifestyle influencers or wellness gurus. In reality, it’s a growing movement among people who are simply exhausted; exhausted by alerts, exhausted by comparisons and exhausted by the way screens have colonised their every quiet moment.

To detox digitally doesn’t mean throwing away your devices or quitting modern life. It means recognising when the balance is off—and doing something about it. It’s a conscious decision to log out, tune in, and breathe again, because there’s a difference between being available and being alive.

You don’t need a lab coat to know that too much screen time takes a toll: sore eyes. tense shoulders and interrupted sleep. These are common complaints, but they aren’t just physical. Behind them lies a deeper disruption of the nervous system. Constant stimulation keeps us in a state of low-grade alertness, never quite relaxing, never fully present.

Blue light, in particular, is notorious for disrupting the body’s natural rhythm. It interferes with sleep cycles, suppresses melatonin, and leads to restlessness. Yet, many of us scroll through news, texts, and timelines right before bed. It’s no surprise we wake up feeling foggy.

Unplugging—even for short windows—allows the body to reset. Eyes rest. Posture improves. Sleep deepens. These aren’t side benefits. They’re the foundation of functioning well.

Mental clarity

Beyond the physical impact, there’s something else at stake: clarity. In a digitally saturated environment, there’s little space for thought to settle. We’re bombarded with information—headlines, tweets, messages, opinions—often before we’ve had time to process the last round. Focus becomes slippery.

A digital detox reintroduces space. When the stream of incoming data slows, the mind has room to breathe. People who regularly unplug report improved attention spans, better problem-solving, and reduced anxiety. This isn’t magic. It’s what happens when mental clutter is cleared.

It’s been a long time since boredom had a seat at the table. But boredom, contrary to what we’ve been taught by our devices, isn’t something to fear. It’s a gateway. It’s where imagination stretches far and creativity begins to stir.

When we allow ourselves to be unoccupied, new thoughts emerge. Not from a search bar, but from somewhere deeper. A walk without music. A wait without a phone. A coffee without a companion. These moments may seem small, but they’re quietly radical.

Digital detoxing helps rebuild tolerance for stillness—and that stillness often holds more value than we expect.

You know the moment: you’re in a conversation, and the other person checks their phone. They may not mean to be rude, but the message is clear—their attention is divided. This kind of micro-abandonment chips away at connection. Over time, it becomes the norm.

Children notice. Friends notice. Partners notice. Even strangers notice. In fact, research shows that the mere presence of a smartphone on a table—without being used—can reduce the quality of conversation and emotional connection.

Detoxing from digital devices, even briefly, reminds us how good it feels to be seen and heard. No half-glances. No multitasking. Just attention—undivided and real.

Workplaces are catching on

Even some employers have started to notice the problem. Burnout isn’t just about long hours—it’s about constant connectivity; always being reachable and never truly being off.

As a result, companies in Europe and beyond have begun experimenting with digital wellness policies—no emails after hours, phone-free meetings, and even enforced screen breaks. These changes are more than cosmetic. They signal a shift in how we define productivity and well-being.

To be clear, a digital detox isn’t a rejection of technology. Most of us rely on it for work, communication, and creativity. But just as food is necessary and overeating is harmful, so too is digital consumption. The goal is not to abandon your phone—it’s to use it with awareness.

Technology should serve us, not the other way around. It’s easy to think of time as something that gets taken. But more often, we give it away—10 seconds here, 20 minutes there—until the day is gone. Digital detoxing is a way of reclaiming time. Not in big, dramatic ways. But in the quiet reclaiming of your focus, your energy, and your attention.

Ask yourself: when was the last time you did nothing? No screen. No noise. Just you and the moment? If you can’t remember, maybe it’s time to unplug-and see what’s been waiting for you beneath the noise.


You can start small

You don’t need to disappear into the wilderness to unplug. You can begin right where you are.

• Set no-screen zones in your home, like the dining table or bedroom.

• Designate one screen-free hour a day.

• Leave the phone behind when you step out for a walk.

• Replace your morning scroll with a book or quiet stretch.

Small acts of unplugging make a difference. They train your brain to slow down. They remind your body what it feels like to move without interruption. They reintroduce you to your own pace.

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